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Body in Trash Can Was Once Someone's Baby Girl

Let's adopt this murdered woman, this woman in the trash, as one of our own. We can call her Jane Doe.

I'm feeling particularly disturbed by the mystery of the woman murdered and tossed away like garbage in a trash can on Dublin Canyon Road.

Now that there's a face to see, we can start to piece together who she was. She's no longer just a body in a trash can. She was someone's baby girl one day not so long ago. She could be a sister, a mommie, a cousin, a wife, a girlfriend.

There are so few details to go on, but even the little things are clues. She liked bright nail polish colors and wore funky pierced jewelry. I look at the tiny worn brassy feet-shaped earrings she was wearing, and it really gets to me.

Did she pick out those earrings with girlish purple rhinestone gems because they made her smile? Did they reminder her of a baby's feet? Did they just seem like a fun thing to wear for no reason at all?

When someone who is loved goes missing, it's usually big news because their relatives and friends will stop at nothing to get them back. Names like Sierra LaMar, Sandra Cantu and Michelle Le become imprinted on our minds as their faces are put on posters plastered all over our communities.

But there are so many more others out there we never hear about. According to the Department of Justice's California Missing Persons page, there are about 25,000 active missing person cases.

Robert William McIntosh of Solano County. Athena Zamora of Oakland. Kaelyn Aragon of San Bruno. April Downing of San Ramon.

Just peruse the pictures on the site. They're babies, teens and grown-ups of many different races. They look happy or miserable. Smug or defiant. Innocent or angry. Some simply look utterly and completely desperate and frightened. Some seem as normal as any kid in a yearbook snapshot. Two, sisters just a year apart, are wearing frilly summer hats with flowers on top.

And all of them are gone.

Of all the missing people, 2,100 of them haven't been identified. Just like our Pleasanton Jane Doe.

Murders are rare in the Tri-Valley, so I'm just guessing that Jane Doe was killed and dumped off here from somewhere else.

But I hope that won't stop us from adopting her as our own.

Because if she remains unidentified, it's likely no one else will. And it doesn't seem fair that she be forgotten the way she was left, just a body in a trash can.

If you know anything about this case, call at (925) 931-5100. You can also call the Missing Children Hotline at 1-800-222-FIND or email missing.persons@doj.ca.gov if you have any information about any missing child or adult.  

Mimi June 8, 2012 at 11:57 am
Wow Kari, thank you for such an honest and compassionate column. I work with the homeless in Livermore and often recall that each of these people was once someone's precious baby with all the typical hopes and dreams of a lifetime....but something went terribly wrong. Thank you for the humanity and enlightenment you share.
Ashley June 8, 2012 at 02:48 pm
Is there an estimated age range?
Tanya Rose June 8, 2012 at 05:02 pm
Ashley - they're saying between 20 and 40 (which is a pretty big range). here is the latest story, with some new details about our Jane Doe: http://pleasanton.patch.com/articles/trash-can-body-update-police-releasing-sketch-more-details-on-victim
Tanya Rose June 8, 2012 at 05:03 pm
By the way, Kari, this column made me cry!!
Pleasanton Mom June 8, 2012 at 06:05 pm
Thank you so much for this piece. RIP Pleasanton Jane Doe.
marilyn vigil June 8, 2012 at 07:09 pm
its sad when anyones life is taken tragically and violently. She was someone''s daughter, sister, maybe even a mother...No one deserves to die that way, I know first hand, having just lost my son. People get lost and cant find their way and others take advantage of that, I pray for her soul and that her identity and killer or killers are found as I do with my own sons killers.
Marie June 8, 2012 at 08:14 pm
Thank you Kari. And I agree, Wouldn't it be good to adopt her as a community and keep this story alive until our Pleasanton Baby Girl has a name. From what I have read, it is unknown if she was killed or her death was by accident, as a cause of death has yet to be determined. Either way, she was treated as trash and abandoned with the expectation of fading away amongst a group of people busy with their own lives.
Renae Wilber June 8, 2012 at 10:57 pm
I LOVE the idea of adopting her as a community. At least this way, at the end, her life was made real.
Kari Hulac (Editor) June 9, 2012 at 11:11 am
Thanks everyone, for responding and for caring. It sounds like enough folks are interested so I will find out how we could get fliers made with this sketch on it and start getting it posted around the East Bay.
Abby June 10, 2012 at 04:20 pm
Those stones look like Amethysts, and I wondered, was she born in February? Or maybe she had a February baby of her own....
(Was it forensically determined if she's ever given birth?) It breaks my heart that nobody is looking for this girl. And since her fingerprints didn't turn up in the legal system, she probably was a good person who never did anything wrong.
Renae Wilber June 10, 2012 at 07:22 pm
That's interesting Abby - I was born in October and for some reason I was always given pink stones - these look pink, but my birth stone is an opal. I think you are on to some really good ideas with this. I wonder if they figured out a more accurate age for her yet. I wonder if she is from another area and her family thinks she is just busy...I wonder if they have reported their daughter, sister, mother, etc. missing but wherever they are from they aren't being taken seriously...I wonder if she is even from this area...Kari, let us know when you have flies made. Perhaps we could all meet somewhere and make a game plan for distributing them. You can count me in. Also, if she is undocumented, her family may be afraid to contact the police, or they think she has been deported Wish we knew her nationality and/or language... how can we find out if they have learned more about her? Or will you keep us updated? So many questions, such few answers. We should have a meet-up group. Anyone else willing to partake?
LovePleasanton June 11, 2012 at 02:32 am
Hi, I saw the police sketch and then looked at picture of Coralia Oxlaj (missing person age, weight and height all kind of match)..... is it just me (totally untrained and NOT a detective), or is there a good resemblance between the victim and Coralia? I put a split screen and looked at both images next to each other... I wonder what other people think about this, and any posts regarding your thoughts out there will help my curiosity here...... maybe its just me... don't know... you can find Coleia's picture here: https://www.findthemissing.org/en/cases/14852/0/
please post what you think....
Tanya Rose June 11, 2012 at 02:37 am
Oh wow, @LovePleasanton ... it really does look like her!
Cherry June 11, 2012 at 02:55 am
It does look like her!
Renae Wilber June 11, 2012 at 02:58 am
@LovePleasanton - it's not just you - good detective work, there is an eerie resemblence. I blew her photo up and the eyes, nose, spacing between the brows are very similar. Have you contacted the PD to tell them just in case they missed it?
LovePleasanton June 11, 2012 at 03:22 am
I have not contacted the pleasanton police yet since if it was just my imagination I don't want to waste their time.... but with 3 other people independently telling me there is some resemblence, I think I will send them an email tonight..... I have just been so moved by this. I really don't understand why it has affected me so much. No one deserves to be treated like this....
Mark Tarte June 11, 2012 at 08:39 am
Love, contact the PD or Sheriff with your suspicions. It doesn't have to be correct, but it could lead the detective to the right path to take. Never discount your hunches.
LovePleasanton June 11, 2012 at 12:21 pm
I sent sketches in email to both Pleasanton and San Rafael Police. Circumstances also tend to make sense since (if it is her... We still don't know) Coralia came to US a few months ago, no car and no cell phone, but has family here. This whole case has disturbed many people. A person treated like garbage in our own back yard is a bit more than just harsh.
Kari Hulac (Editor) June 11, 2012 at 03:31 pm
Thank you LovePleasanton...we'll keep in touch with police and see what they think!
Renae, in the meantime, I'll find out about fliers and how we could meet up to distribute.
Abby June 11, 2012 at 05:22 pm
Hi Renae
Yes the stones are pink except the ones with the baby feet look purple to me. So she may be a mom....which means someone knows she's missing if they have her child. It seems an autopsy would've shown if she's given birth. And yes, she DOES look like Coralia!!!!
LovePleasanton June 12, 2012 at 02:57 am
Hello everyone,
Just to provide an update to everyone. I have been in touch with both Pleasanton and San Rafael police departments. I Have good news, and I have bad news.... First the bad news: The person in the sketch is definitely NOT Coralia Oxlaj. The reason I say "definitely" is the good news: Coralia Oxlaj walked into a police station a few days ago in Los Angeles and identified herself. So san Rafael police have closed that case. So I guess that makes this a very roller coaster kind of a day for me since I was hoping we would have at least some kind of closure. So.... my conscience is clear..... at least I did the right thing on my part, and I will not live the rest of my life thinking "what if" or "could have, should have, would have".
Renae Wilber June 12, 2012 at 05:38 pm
@LovePleasanton, thank you for keeping us informed. I also went to bed last night wondering if I would be relieved or sad, or probably both if it was her. I'm glad she is alive, but sad that we don't know who this is. Thank you for all your hard work and keeping us updated.
Tom June 12, 2012 at 06:36 pm
Taking the life of another is just crazy. How does a person get to a place where they would do such a thing?
Kari Hulac (Editor) June 13, 2012 at 11:52 am
Hey all, I created this Facebook page, too: http://www.facebook.com/PleasantonJaneDoe
Abby June 13, 2012 at 03:58 pm
I had contacted that missing person org direcrly on Monday and they told me Coralia was no longer missing but asked me not to comment about it here, which I didn't. And her profile was taken down by then too.
I hope Pleasanton police will keep working to identify this girl.
LovePleasanton June 14, 2012 at 03:29 am
Hi Kari
Just in case no one has said it. Thank you for making the Facebook page. one never knows what can come of it.
LovePleasanton June 14, 2012 at 03:48 am
I Just learned there is a side view sketch of the victim released by the police. This was shown by NBC and can be found here: http://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/Police-Discuss-Pleasanton-Trash-Can-Body-157621785.html
Tonight was the first time I was this, perhaps can be added to the Facebook site too. The side sketch to me brings a totally different dimension to what she looks like.
N. Cruz June 15, 2012 at 11:23 pm
I could not agree more. I check back often to see if she has been identified - it is heartbreaking to me that either nobody is looking for her or her family is out there wondering.
Autumn Johnson (Editor) August 30, 2012 at 01:30 pm
If you are following this case, here is an update: http://patch.com/A-xwwQ
Autumn Johnson (Editor) October 31, 2012 at 08:40 pm
Update on this story. Arrest made and victim identified: http://pleasanton.patch.com/articles/murder-victim-found-in-trash-can-identified-as-stockton-woman

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