Back to School Supply List: Daunting Task or Exciting Tradition?

I remember when back-to-school shopping was just about buying new clothes, new shoes and a new lunch box. Nowadays, back-to-school shopping includes purchasing a detailed list of school supplies. 

I am not sure when these “requested school supply” lists began, but ever since my son started kindergarten five years ago, those lists make their way into my purse and stay put until all the items are checked off, sorted, labeled and bagged for the first day of school. 

For my kids and me, this back-to-school supply list signifies the kickoff to the coming year. We pick a date, usually in the first week in August, and spend the day shopping for all the necessities — clothes, backpacks and school supplies. 

The shopping trips have become a summer family ritual, five years and three kids in school later. These “back-to-school dates” allow me to spend time with each of my children and reconnect before the school year gets going and life becomes too busy.   

But for some parents and kids, this supply list shopping trip can be a nightmare. 

Having to run to two, three, sometimes even four stores just to complete the list can be frustrating, setting a negative tone for the school year. Then, having to drag overstuffed shopping bags to the first day of school is enough to drive even the most patient parents over the edge.

However, before you get too worked up and stressed out, check out this new and improved way to complete your shopping list. 

Many schools now offer “school supply packs” that can be bought online or purchased before the previous year ends. Check your school's website or Parent Faculty Club link to see if the packs are offered at your school. These kits’ can be a lifesaver. 

The kits are filled based on your school's specific grade requested items. There is a boy or girl pack that typically reflects gender preferred colors for folders, scissors and pencil boxes. The pre-ordered kits usually can be picked up at your school site on registration day or may be sent to your child’s new classroom. 

Although kids do not get to pick out folders, journals or pencil boxes depicting their favorite characters or designs, these supply kits get the job done. As far as money goes, the kits are comparable to buying individual items on your own. I did compare what I bought with a mom who ordered the kits and I think I may have spent a little less than she did, but overall we both got what we needed. I think these kits are great for working parents or kids who don’t care too much about choosing personalized or unique supplies. It certainly is easier and much more convenient. 

I asked my kids again, which way they prefer to get their school supplies and of course my girls chose the shopping option, hands down. My son, on the other hand, asked if I could just pick out all his supplies for him, but he made it clear he still wanted the “special date” day. In his words, he thought "we could do something more fun than shopping."  What??? My 9-year-old does not think shopping is fun? I guess I knew it was bound to end someday.

Happy parenting!!

Which option do you prefer: pre-made school supply kits or shopping for items needed? Also, does your school offer the kits or are you just asked to donate money for supplies?